Well, you're guessing wrong. Anything wasn't even remotely reminding things getting out of hand.
No, no, I meant that D/s is totally different than top = dom & bottom = sub. As far as I know, seme/uke is just the Japanese (fandom?) way of saying D/s.
And no, we weren't discussing how D/s is illogical or sexist (because it isn't) but - as I said - how that being on top (i.e. doing the penetrating) is automatically taken to mean that one is in charge/dominating/manly, and that similarly being on bottom (i.e. being penetrated) is automatically taken to mean that one is submissive/meek/womanly is illogical and sexist.
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Date: 2009-06-10 01:43 am (UTC)No, no, I meant that D/s is totally different than top = dom & bottom = sub. As far as I know, seme/uke is just the Japanese (fandom?) way of saying D/s.
And no, we weren't discussing how D/s is illogical or sexist (because it isn't) but - as I said - how that being on top (i.e. doing the penetrating) is automatically taken to mean that one is in charge/dominating/manly, and that similarly being on bottom (i.e. being penetrated) is automatically taken to mean that one is submissive/meek/womanly is illogical and sexist.