Maybe argument was the wrong word choice. When I read some of the comments to the entry, it didn't seem like a discussion. Or the 'agree to disagree' type.
Don't understand your second sentence.
And I agree discussing something is good, but it shouldn't blow up to the point were people are posting unnecessary comments, and etc. Of course, I have my own opinion on what an unnecessary comment is.
And now that you brought it up, I see what you mean about new (fic) ideas being generated.
D/S is also another topic that I've seen to be okay with some people, and not with others. So the seme/uke problem kind of confused me. I probably wouldn't have made a big difference in another comm.
Of course, I didn't read the whole post, so I don't understand everything that happen. It's possible that I just happened to read the only bad comments.
And you're right, after a couple of days, I'm sure people would have forgotten about the whole thing.
But my point is, from what I assumed, (and yeah I know assuming is bad) it didn't look like a discussion. And maybe deleting the post wasn't such a good idea, but I wasn't there, so I don't know.
Also my previous comment was probably influenced but what happened early to me that day. My mom was really anger with someone else, and she asked me "mediate", because she won't talk when she gets that way. After all that yelling, I just couldn't stand any kind of disapproving words.
And don't worry I know that you weren't trying to start an argument :)
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Date: 2009-06-09 01:53 pm (UTC)Don't understand your second sentence.
And I agree discussing something is good, but it shouldn't blow up to the point were people are posting unnecessary comments, and etc. Of course, I have my own opinion on what an unnecessary comment is.
And now that you brought it up, I see what you mean about new (fic) ideas being generated.
D/S is also another topic that I've seen to be okay with some people, and not with others. So the seme/uke problem kind of confused me. I probably wouldn't have made a big difference in another comm.
Of course, I didn't read the whole post, so I don't understand everything that happen. It's possible that I just happened to read the only bad comments.
And you're right, after a couple of days, I'm sure people would have forgotten about the whole thing.
But my point is, from what I assumed, (and yeah I know assuming is bad) it didn't look like a discussion. And maybe deleting the post wasn't such a good idea, but I wasn't there, so I don't know.
Also my previous comment was probably influenced but what happened early to me that day. My mom was really anger with someone else, and she asked me "mediate", because she won't talk when she gets that way. After all that yelling, I just couldn't stand any kind of disapproving words.
And don't worry I know that you weren't trying to start an argument :)